Should I let my mum carry on running my life at the age of 27?

Please don't hate your mom. That is the way she was brought and she simply ped it on to you. You have every right to your own feelings and you need a big distance between you and your mom. You have depended on on your mom far too long. Stand on your own two feet. When you have proved to yourself that you no longer need your mom, then and only then can you reestablish a mother daughter relationship.r