Should I stay with him or go?

Plenty of fish in the sea! find one that will respect you. But first talk to him and let him know how you feel. Ask him if he still wants to be in a relationship. If he doesn't change or doesn't take you seriously, kick him to the curb (figuratively speaking) lol. Anyway Yea, most def. he is being a jerk and you can always find another guy that has some home training and knows how to treat his girlfriend with respect! Good Luck!